COMFORT ZONE

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                                       Your comfort zone is your enemy one of the biggest irony's I can think of is when you live life trying to stay comfortable life will send you more and more discomfort it's true life will send you more and more problems cuz life will keep throwing rocks at you life will keep handing you resistance struggles issues and because people are so concerned about staying comfortable instead of growing and reaching higher because people don't want to aggress their limitations and move beyond them they keep struggling listen you are not here on this planet to sip apple martinis on the beach and get yourself a tan you are here to grow and if you won't make yourself uncomfortable the life will give you plenty of reasons to push you out your comfort zone so you have one of two options either you commit to constant growth and feeling discomfort upon your own accord and you become the master of your own destiny or you hand over the keys and you let life happen to you by default one path leads to success and the other path leads you to constant struggling pain it's your choice you think Steve Jobs started Apple feeling comfortable about it.

                                         You think top athletes sleep their way to high performance you think

oscar-winning actress procrastinating their way to achievement No so then why are you giving in to wasting time with Netflix marathons into chronic procrastination why are you running to the bar the moment your best friend, X you to come out you have got to be willing to make the

hard decision you've got to be willing to feel uncomfortable to feel awkward to face rejection to fail to feel pressure you've got to be willing to face those things because that's what's necessary for you to grow how many times you've looked at your life and said man if only I knew then what I know now I live my life so differently so is it not possible then that the life you are living now you would be living differently if you began to develop an awareness that you do not currently have well guess what the only way for you to develop knowledge and awareness is to try things you have not yet tried to do things you have not yet done to create things you are not yet created to go to places you have not yet explored this is how you grow that is how you become the person who is worthy of sitting on the beach with their favorite drink.

                                         Life will reward you with those experiences after you do the work there is a real price of success and life collects the payments and let me tell you something life does not accept payment plans life does not let you get away with experiencing things that you have not yet earned your sacrifice must be paid upfront and in full and that is the only way you are going to achieve the life that you want so I strongly suggest you begin to pay with your discomfort I strongly suggest that you start making those calls then you start approaching that person then you start practicing kindness and compassion over jealousy and greed so you can front your anxiety that you hit the gym that you study harder that you jump higher that you begin waking up early even if you're not a morning person that you destroy your procrastination that you start doing the things that you know within your heart I usually start doing a long time ago so you can start to build the experiences and the knowledge that you need to succeed that is what I suggest you. 

                                        Don't listen to this as a voice on a video over some music listen to this is a direct sign a direct message that life is giving to you to wake you up to help you acknowledge your own greatness it's time it's time for you to get uncomfortable it's time for you to start dreaming again and start going after what was always yours for what you've ignored for far too long and I promise when you push yourself in a discomfort your friends will take notice your colleagues will take notice your family will take notice life will take notice and life will begin to back you up life will begin to support you and open doors for you and introduce you to the people who will take you to the next level but you have got to take the first step so take it take it and watch your life explode into greatness watch new levels of the game unfold for you but watch you develop into the person who you have always wanted to become it's all waiting for you outside of your comfort zone go for it.

Take responsibility

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                                 The new year is not going to save you only you can save you if you don't accept full responsibility for your life no resolution no goal no dream will save you you must take full responsibility for your life for the good that arrives and the ugly and inconvenient if you are the type to play the blame game to play victim bad things always happen to me I'm not where I want to be because of this person or because of this event if you are this type of person you will never get on in life taking responsibility does it mean relinquishing control of your life it means taking control it means if someone is stepping over you if the circumstance keeps pulling you back be able to see it for what it is and to take massive action to eliminate that person or thing in your life it means accepting that you absolutely played a part in all of the negative in your life to this point and really they complain and moan about what Patrol figure out how to fix it what can I do now to beat this problem. 

                                   What can I do now to create a life of success a life of abundance what are these successful people doing right now and how can I emulate their actions to mirror their success I guarantee no successful person is playing the victim role no human that achieves anything in life plays the blame game they focus on what they can do now to create a better tomorrow holding on to grudges and negative feelings from years past will never get you out of the crappy situation you are in what will get you out of this situation planning on how you intend to get out and how you attain to achieve success running down your wreath your purpose you should say to yourself no more no more will I blame others for my situation the past is gone I cannot get it back and I will not complain about it any longer I will drop it like a hot potato and move on with my life I will do whatever it takes whatever it takes when negative circumstances come.

                                   I accept that they are not happening to me rather just happening as they do to all humans I will know in that moment I have a chance to accept responsibility or play victim I will know only one of those choices will lead to success the other to a life of misery an average Linden I choose success I choose to show character my jewels to be proud of my life I am in charge here I take responsibility my life of success starts now you are where you are because of your decisions if you don't believe this chances are you are not where you want to be take responsibility for your position you are the only one responsible for your life and the only one capable of making it better no more playing victim it's not anyone else's fault you are where you want to be it's yours when you take full responsibility for your life you are no longer a player in life's team taking whatever comes your way you become the captain the coach the director of your lives experience and you really can design it how you like.

TIME

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                                    Time is all we have this moment right now there's only one thing in our lives that we're never able to reacquire once it's gone and I'm not talking about money I'm not talking about material items I'm talking about time and it's a unique concept unique idea because when utilized correctly it contains the ingredients to success to happiness to growth prosperity all the things we want but at the very same time if neglected it leaves us with very little because the truth is every morning when you wake up you are living minutes you will never get back you were breathing air you will never take in again it is your one opportunity to embrace this gift and every second sees a little of it slip and my point is that there is no moment more important more perfect than right now not in a week not after your promotion not in 30 years when you plan to retire and relax. 

                                    Right now see we have this mentality that the future is going to somehow mean more than the present that if we suffer now or if we're unhappy now that will save the best in life for some other time but the reality is we don't get younger yes we should be working hard absolutely success comes from effort hard work dedication persistence but the key is allocate your precious time to the work to the things that make you feel like today is power that right now is so amazing you don't want it to end today is when you take a first step towards the things you want when you become who you want to become no one is ever or will ever keep you from that other than yourself there is no ceiling there is no limitation there is no special requirement there is you and what you allow yourself to accomplish you are the gatekeeper you have your foot on the gas and it's so easy to point others right to point to our environment to blame things on everything but our own decision our decision to stick to the status quo because believe it or not it is that simple you are where you are because that's where you decided to be and you've accepted that as okay. 

                                      Look if you want change then manufacture of change create a plan and move go transform step out of your head and into the real world think about how lucky we are to be alive in this day and age with access to all the information we could ever dream of technology that enables growth freedom to pursue any path that looks appealing anything we could ever want it's right in front of us yet we don't embrace why why in the world would we nothing is more important in life than living it nothing makes us feel more energized more free more happy than following the path we were meant to take it's having the courage to step over the obstacles to face the challenges to be uncomfortable and at the beginning it's tough right change is tough getting what you want isn't easy there's a period of struggle of growth but once you get through it you understand what living really is which brings us right back to the concept of time our small existence on this planet the greatest gift a human being can receive you by default have it don't ever let it be in vain the future isn't when happiness someday occurs it's a continuation of you living every moment to the fullest from now until your last make every trip around the Sun better than the previous never let a moment of sunshine clouds or rain deprive you of your gift.  Be the best version of yourself you can be live the life you were meant all it takes is a simple decision.

When you feel like Quitting, Remember why you started

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                                         When you feel like quitting remember all of those who said you'd fail when you feel like giving up remember why you started when you feel like quitting remember what you're doing it all for when you feel like quitting remember pain is temporary and greatness lasts forever when you feel like quitting remember that the pain you feel today will be replaced with the strength you need tomorrow remember that every bunch of pain you feel is building a stronger till a stronger by a stronger wine and a stronger Terry so push through let it stop forced it to grow you don't back down from the pain face it feel no pain is no pain that painful last rip that's nothing give me more push harder too tight too hard too busy too early to stretch no excuse me tired no excuse it too hard no excuses too busy no excuses Annie no excuses to stress no excuses when I feel like quitting I remember there's too many people I need to prove for what I feel like quitting I remember too much to fight for I will not quit sleep in Depok grandma I'm up I'm ready to go. Quitting that's for those who have no heart.

                                            I do not quit your greatest Bezique your greatest up your greatest sprint it doesn't come with average comfort if you won't average results get join up and give an average effort if you want to be at your best you don't have to give your best effort make it out to yourself that you will not walk out of any training session any game anything without giving 110 percent of your soul whatever you think is your limit push past whatever you think is your max see if you can get 10% more out result don't lie it all comes down to one simple question how bad do you want and will you feel like quit give me ten more. Nothing great is going to come if you greet I know it's hard I know you are tired I know it seems impossible but you must keep going stick it out and get your award.

                                             Write down why you must conquer this fear, what therefore all wife you must what would be worse than your fear we say it out of time. What is your reason you have to have a strong enough reason why you want. They say it's never spell enough why the how will comes the result, why must you do this be more fearful of what it will cost you if you don't do it be more fearful of the impact it will have on your future and you don't hate that. It be more fearful of how it will impact the lives of their loved one if you don't take action what will it cost you. What about a few duping what about a few to conquer key, how will it improve their life who else will benefit here will not stop me if my desire to win is strong enough fear will not stop me now I am a George I live without fear. I fear nothing but a mini ogre life, I fear nothing but an average existed, I'll fear nothing but an unlived life. I choose to live free, now hear me what would you do if you had no fear of failure, why are you waiting? everyone has something they fear doing that, if they did it, if they conquered the fear would have a huge impact on their life maybe it's the fear of failure maybe they fear embarrassment or rejection if it doesn't work out maybe, they fear starting that business or making that call that one thing you know you must do and if you do it will change your life forever.

NEVER doubt YOURSELF

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                              There's an African proverb that reads when there is no enemy within the enemy outside can do you no harm. When you refused to allow any doubts in your own mind then no doubts from others will ever cloud your judgment when you create a strong mind there can be no other that will defeat you with their words or with their judgments when you believe in you. You need no other to believe in you because others really have no say in who you will become only you have that say only you can decide if others opinions become reality or you create your own fate the greatest challenge in the greatest obstacle any human will face is their own doubts their own fears and their own conditioned thoughts. If you want to live your dream you will have to fight for it you will have to fight the greatest battles of your life you will have to battle the external enemy people who don't believe in you people who do you wrong people who put you down you will have to battle the intimate enemy. 

                               Those close to you who might do you wrong or maybe you assume don't believe in you those who want the best for you but their idea of support is to remind you of what can't be done or should it be attempted but the worst of all is the internal enemy you will have to battle it seems like an army in your head an army of doubt fear of failure fear of judgment lack of belief the voices inside the head saying I am not good enough I'm not worthy I want to do this but I can I want to give to those I love but I can't I'm not worthy of love I'll never be able to do this I am hopeless I've tried everything the world is against me no one believes in me my life's not worth living there is no greater pain that can be inflicted on you than your own internal enemy your own thoughts will cause you more pain than anyone or anything they can be likened to a terrorist living in your soul. 

                               But when you learn to control and direct your mind you can direct that internal voice to work for you rather than against you you get it to work for you by creating a compelling future a future you will be proud to achieve proud to live through you do this by not just having goals but having meaningful goals, goals that get you excited to wake up every morning you do this by understanding what your purpose in life really is what are you doing it up for when you know these things when you work on yourself daily you can quiet that voice in your head you can feel good enough because you are good enough but it does take a commitment, a commitment of daily practice to work in yourself cut out something that you spend a lot of time on that does nothing good for your life and replace it with daily work on you empower yourself such a life up to win you.

The boredom of work

One of the most depressing parts of our lives is that we have to do the same things again and again. It’s boring and we hate it.

Naturally as children we would do so much. One time we would become a pilot and the other time we would become a scientist. There seemed to be no limits to what we could become. We used to play different roles and we enjoyed it.

But we feel sad when we think that each of the roles that we played could  have been a career. Sadly that cannot happen in our modern world. We have to pick a particular role and play it for the rest of our entire life. 

The American Poet Walt Whitman once quoted: “ I am large, I contain multitudes”.

 

The Poet here refers that in each of us we possess a multitude of talents. We can be a good teacher, a good sportsman or something as simple as a good fisherman. It is in our nature that we want to become what we like doing. It’s not our fault that we cannot specialise in everything. 

Adam Smith quotes in his famous book “The Wealth of Nations” that productivity is increased by the division of labour. He also says that division of labour is necessary for increasing the wealth of a nation. 

Karl Marx, the famous political theorist had quite contrary views to the division of labour. Karl proposed that division of labour and concentrating on a particular skill would dull our lives. But it doesn’t have to be this way for him in his Communist world. In the Communist society, anybody could become anything. A person could be a fisherman in the morning, a writer in the noon and work at a public office in a company in the evenings without actually becoming one. 

But it was an unrealistic view of life. We have to accept that some part of our lives would die without being truly fulfilled and expressed. When we specialise in one thing we become more efficient and productive. We lose on our multitudes and increase the wealth of our nations. Thus, we should accept that we cannot become everyone and be happy with who we are.

Who do I need to become ?

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                        What do I need to do to get to where I must get what must I do today to become the person I must be tomorrow. Who do I need to become to get to where I must get to. What do I need to do to become who I must become. One of the most powerful questions you can ask yourself every day every single time you need to make a decision what do I want to be proud of tomorrow who do I want to be tomorrow the guy that quits but the guy that kept going the guy that took the easy option or the guy that went all-in the guy that gave into temptation or the guy that showed discipline. Discipline because the hard work I put in today will be worth it tomorrow. The discipline I saw today will be worth it for many tomorrow the stroll towards if I make today will make me proud for many tomorrow what must you knew today to achieve with you must achieve in your future. 

                          What do you need to do to get to where you must get to what do you need to learn what do you have to become to get the results you must have. What you need to master what new skills must you obtain you will never get to the next level without mastering the skills that the next level requires. You will not reach any great heights without becoming the person that it's capable of reaching those great heights it's easy to take the easy option it's easy to rationalize if no one around you is living at a high level no one around you is achieving at the highest level if I seem ok to tickity it's easy to give the big average miserable threat what's not easy it's put in the work when you don't feel like what's not easy is continuing to raise the bar when everyone around you remains the same when that little voice besides you is saying don't be too great too ambitious. You won't be here what's not easy is having massive dreams and working focus because most people go and most people won't what's not easy is set your goals so high people actually think you're insane you will not get to the top of the mountain by taking the easy road it's all uphill. It's a challenge a challenge they will build strength pride courage our journey that will build character build a stronger human beings you will never reach any greater heights but remaining the same you must rise up, be willing to put in the work required to reach that level be willing to do whatever it takes to become that person that person you know is inside. 

                         What do you want to be remembered for who do you want to be tomorrow who do you want to be in one year five you in you who do you want to be hanging around who once you become in order to be hanging around those people everyone is looking for the magic walk the elevators it exists there is no elevator you must take the stairs you must take one step in time because each step you take is a new deal each step you take is a new strength new muscle each step you take is leading you to a better place. If you are given all the results you

want right now without working forward you are not be fulfilled because you hit Ernie you must earn the debt you think if you want to fill the bottle victory you want to feel what it feels like to be a champion Ernie become the person that willing to earning are you prepared to put in the work to become that person are you prepared to invest everything you have in order to become that person are you prepared to suffer now so you can get to that place in the future.

Struggle makes you Stronger

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                     Imagine if you got what you want every time no struggle no hard work, no challenges, no hard work required some of you are saying that will be great you would be weak and then when something hard comes up in your life you wouldn't know how to handle it because you have never gone through anything that stresses you. You cannot grow without struggle you cannot develop stress without resistance without challenging yourself without struggle pain is your friend maybe not in the moment but for the evolution of your soul for the long-term benefit of you as a stronger human being pain is your frame. 

                            If you didn't have failures if you didn't have struggles if you didn't have disappointment you could have no strength, no courage, no compassion how could you those ponies are made from your pain and struggle you were giving pain because you were strong enough to handle them. You are giving this life because you are strong enough to live it because you are strong enough to drug do it to thrive through it to inspire others through it they will look at you and say he did it, she did it I have the strip to do it too. You are stronger than you think you survived all your talents to this point and you will survive whatever is coming but next time a struggle comes I don't want you to curse the skies know that it was safe for a reason in a lesson it might be to make you stronger it might be to teach you patience it might be for you to show others your spirit there is a reason so don't you give up you have a purpose in this world you will only find if you keep going and keep growing your struggle is a part of your story your struggle made you the person you are today. 

                            Your struggle is your life your struggle is your gift see many people look at struggle like it's a bad thing your struggle will be the gift that the world falls in love with nobody wants to hear the story of the man that was giving everything people want to hear the stories of men and women that endure pain and turn their struggles and to again they want people just to feel sorry for you all. You want people to look up to you do you want to be a lesson because lessons are born in the belly of shrug fear is only a fictional movie but reality is a struggle reality is the struggle. 

                            So take the struggle and change the reality because the whole town you were thinking that your struggle was holding you back it was really giving you the tools to become one of the grace no more second-guessing no more blaming others for the problems we have in your life it's a new day this is my warm lane take it to my dreams your struggle is your gift.

How to not be boring

One of the fears that we encounter in our daily lives is the fear of being boring. Everyday we go around our lives trying to please others so that we don’t come off as boring. The truth is that nobody is actually quite boring.

The reason we come off as boring is because of the lack of ability to communicate effectively with the other person. Nobody is born inherently boring and neither are we.

When William Wordsworth found the valley of the daffodils, the simple daffodils brought an inspiration to him to write a poetry which became a masterpiece but which others may have thought as boring. Most of 18th and 19th century art masterpieces were simple artistic works which seemed boring such as dull portraits of a tree, or a riverbank. Just like there is no such thing as a boring tree, a boring sky or a boring riverbank similarly there is no such thing as a boring person. 

The interesting person doesn't generally fall in the way of interesting things that happen to them on a frequent basis. They do not attend special meetings or do things differently. They just know how to communicate in a way that makes them interesting. 

We fail to realise that our feelings are the most interesting things that we posses with us. Instead of talking about our deepest feelings and emotions we touch only the surface topics such a the weather, how we were late for the movie or how we will celebrate our 21st birthday. We do not express the moment of guilt that we felt, the love and desire that we experienced.

That's why children are never boring. Their youth and their inexperience of the world allows them to talk and express freely about anything they feel. As we grow up, we become more introverted and focus more on ourselves than the outside world.

Even if we do express our feelings and emotions freely like a child, we may feel we are boring because we do not know the other person very well. The solution is to not think about being boring and focus on the direction of our conversation and always being honest about what we say. After continuous practice we will start to feel more socially alive.

Best version of Yourself

                           

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                            Warren Buffett said "one thing the more you learn the more you earn" that is so true look at successful people like Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, Oprah Mark Cuban and any other highly successful human. They are successful because they use their time right they are successful because they are lifetime learners they commit to learning new things every single day. Warren Buffett one of the wealthiest humans on the planet is famous for reading more than 5 hours every day Bill Gates read one book per week Mark Cuban three hours a day Oprah well she's just obsessed with books notice the common theme here successful people never stop learning. 

                             Think about this you have eighty six thousand and four hundred dollars to spend every single day but when the day is over the money disappears you can't give back when you try to spend all of the money before they disappear, when you try to use it wisely using assess. you look the sad part is we only have 86,400 seconds a day and most people take this time for Greg most people let this time disappear without a second stop we'll never get this time back we must use it wise we must be productive we must use our time to do

things we enjoy you to set up our life so we could spend our futures doing more things we wanted instead of wasting your time or meaningless things you to learn new things. 

                              The time you spend playing video games or partying with your friends will never come back once you use that time. It's gone forever use your time wisely read book study hard and learn as much as you can most people give up on their dreams because it gets too hard a lot of students stop chasing their dreams because of one failed test a matter of fact most students don't even try their best when they take the test because in their mind they have already failed the test. They stopped believing in themselves and wants to believe them killed the dream is kill if you have a dream you must do everything to make it into reality it doesn't matter how many times you fail a test never stop believing in yourself light itself is a 10 sometimes you will fail but the only way you could be a failure is if you stop trying whatever dream you had use all your energy to make it into reality push yourself to become the person you are destined to become if you want to get results you have never got before you are going to have to do things you have never done. 

                                Before the richest man in the world Bill Gates was once asked which superpower he would like to have the richest man in the world said that he would want the ability to read books faster. Success is not about the money the fame or the big house it's about becoming the best version of yourself. You will fall down many times on the road to success but the most important thing is that you get back to get back up strong and why then before create a mindset that does not allow you to quit or stop believing. If you quit our industry and give up you'll never know how great you'll never doubt you sir now kills more dreams than failure everywhere you.

How to be a good listener

Today's society is full of the noise wave. People are falling victims of all kinds of noises. We are failing more than ever to connect to the other in an effective way. It seems as if a new trend has risen in the society. We seem to love talking more than ever. There is nothing wrong with talking and expressing our thoughts. But we must know that in order to become an effective communicator we should be also a good listener. And when we are talking we are not listening. 

Listening is more of an art than a skill. For effective listening, a person has to be open-minded and be in the moment. His mind should be clear of doubts and judgements. 

Listening can be fun for both the partners. But we naturally think that what we are speaking is interesting and worth hearing while what the other person is talking is rather boring and dull. So we lose focus and vanity creeps in.

The ability to listen effectively can help us with self-clarification. It is no doubt that when we were confused about something like a problem and when we talked it over with our friends we instantly found the answer presenting itself to us.

We may not know but we can learn bits of ourselves by listening to them. They may be talking about their last holidays and how excited they were on the beach but if we listen carefully we may also experience the same feeling of excitement we felt when we went on a holiday on the beach.

Novels are perfect example of stories that teaches about ourselves. We may not know the author personally but what the author is saying seems to connect mysteriously with our own lives. We are all characters of a Universal Book of Humankind where each of us are sharing their individual stories and lives. 

The reason the other person is a bad listener is because we narrate badly about our lives. We rely heavily on facts and the boring things that do not spark the emotional feelings. They are dull and lack feeling. We try to insist rather than explain our feelings to them.

Good listeners are like good editors in a publishing house. They are able to effectively listen, touch on the specific feelings and edit them to understand in a better way. 

In order to become good listeners we should draw them away from the numb feelings and try to explain it in a rather emotional way. We all have the editing skills to become good listeners. By listening we are not hearing their thoughts but we are on the path of knowing ourselves better.

The LION Attitude

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                         Courage strength leadership bravery, she followed the leader they follow the herd. They don't know where they are going, many times they are led to the slaughterhouse but they keep following. They don't leave they don't use their mind a lion leaves. It's about having the courage to stand and fight for your life having the strict to go bravely in your own direction even if others walk away you tread your own path. Only you know what's best for you only you know what path to take, only you know your courage, your strength, your heart everyone have the heart of the line inside of them let it out, let it scream out of you like the line unleash the beast in you Attitude it's what you think what you do and what you feel about yourself attitude is everything in life.
                          Guess what whether you rise or fall everything is based upon the attitude that you showed up at that moment your attitude determines your altitude. Listen carefully I've been through tough time I'm experienced it and I want you to know that it wasn't my money that pragmatist fun it was my attitude towards life, it was my attitude to keep going when the going gets tough that is the lion attitude I'm talking about. The question is what is your attitude towards life, what do you think of yourself as I'm talking to you now do you think of yourself. I'll talk good things of you on your thing of yourself allow friends and family members think of you, you need the lion attitude. The attitude to take down of your destiny you need the attitude that says I can you need the lion attitude the attitude dances I will. Because I'm bored enough to fight you need the lyre and to do if you are standing in for greatness realize they are hungry when the time come for damage layers are not followers there are leaders who lead the rest of the animals become a lion be fearless. Duck walk the Dog, realize that demonstrate who they are and land that Nazi respect their common respect and authority because they know they should be respected be a land and ship for as the leader a land lease is about having a challenge to stand and fight for your life. Having a sprint to buy your own direction even if no one believes in you follow your heart only you know what is best for you only you know the path to take.
                            You have the heart of a lion inside you let it out but fit in stand out and use your gift the lion is certain. There are no maybes with the line this is my decision and I will attack until the outcome is mine no one will push me around no one will tell me where to go or what to do if I want something I will go after it with everything I have inside me the. Sheep is not certain that is why the she follows the herd not knowing where they are going not Carrie just drifting through life being pulled and being sheared from head to toe until there is nothing left to give and that is what I see in many of you life the world in society is shredding you of your very self head to toe you lose your own unique foot pretty. You've become what others want you to see not what you want to be don't let anyone push you around be like a lion roar so loud with your own spirit that no one will doubt you ever again no one will question your goals no one will dare challenge you again because you certainly will shine through like the light. You have the heart the heart of the lion.

How To Not Be Angry

We all have experienced the moments when we got angry for little things which later we didn’t even remember. It is very natural for us to be angry and justify ourselves. We become angry when somebody tells us that we are a loser, that we are not good enough. Anger leads to hate and it can create further conflicts if not taken care of.

Anger has different sides to itself. When we become angry it is not because we don’t like what the other person said to us but because we are hurt inside and we are vulnerable. The other person doesn’t know it but we think that they should know that. We think that they should know that just by looking and judging us by our face. But when they fail to realise that, we burst into a rage.

But anger is not bad and it reveals a different side of us which often get neglected by others. The angry person tells us that what they want is not the witty criticisms and negative remarks but the care and love which they are missing and longing for. We are not always angry but when the other person doesn’t realise that we have done our best and that we should be thanked for instead of nagging that we get angry. Inside we are hurt by that bitter fight in the morning with our best friend and all we need is some care. We divert our anger for our bosses to our loved ones just because we don’t feel cared and loved. If they could just care a little and understand what we want, we would not have been angry and said all those bitter things.

Anger Management is a skill which we all should implement in our lives and use the next time we get angry. It could save a lot of trouble and also help us live better lives. Here are a few tips to how to not be angry-

1. Think about a happy moment from your past when you are angry. Diverting your minds from a place of anger to a place of happiness is a simple cure to anger.

2. Accept that you are hurt inside. Anger is the call that you need care and love. By realising this you will be able to calm yourself.

3. When you are angry, try to speak to a friend who can understand you and is a good listener. This can be a therapy and help to control it.

4. If you become angry, take a walk outside or go for a run. Any physical exercise would be able to help with your anger.

Fear will not stop you

                     

 (NOTE : Read it as if you are hearing a motivational talk and you will be motivated.)

                        Fear "false evidence appearing real" being afraid of something that has not yet happened and may never happen based on past thoughts beliefs and condition throughout this world that lives only two kinds of people those who conquer their fear and those who are living their fear. Those who are living their fear and those who are living that dream because they had the courage to take on their fear. What is the number one killer of dreams what do you think is the number one reason the majority's fail to live a life they love, what is the number one reason why people fail to succeed at any level it's not look it's not lack of money or opportunity it's certainly not circumstance it's fear. Fear is the greatest killer of dreams to ever Rome's

planet Earth. Fears that voice inside you that this you came the voice think it's louder and stronger every time you live every time you let fear dictate your decisions fear grows strong fear grows bigger. Fear is the voice of average the voice of the settlers, fear must die fear will die the only way you can say is the step right into your fear, you must step right into fear, you

must sum up all the courage inside you and do the thing you fear most.

                          There you may come the greatest fears may be realized and that is why you go in with the attitude that you will do with everything to conquer that fear. No matter how many times I fail no matter how many times I feel rejected embarrassed down out I will not give up I will keep at it until my greatest fear not I will dare toe-to-toe with fear. Fear will stop my largest fear carried my greatest growth I will never let my fear decide my fate I am bigger than any fear. Fear has no place within my heart, fear has no place within your heart, fear is conditioned into a from a young age many don't pay attention to the stage the fear be careful you can't do that, please face these consistent people folks at a living fight and form our psychology which the most turns into, for most turns into average for most turns into selling ball. I think my passion is about living fear will die it's time to take back control those overcometh even find something that is more painful than your feet if you have a fear of failure to stop you from going all out and it's even at high level or more painful thought might be disappointing your family what about your kids being you settle for a life. 

                            You don't want and knowing they will follow in your footsteps may be a greater pain would be the thought of city to the end of your life and knowing you've never really lived, you just exist you just I need you to really feel that pain in

the back fill a deep emotional connection to the write down why you won't settle for that pain anymore. Write down why you must conquer this fear, what therefore all wife you must what would be worse than your fear we say it out of time. What is your reason you have to have a strong enough reason why you want. They say it's never spell enough why the how will comes the result, why must you do this be more fearful of what it will cost you if you don't do it be more fearful of the impact it will have on your future and you don't hate that. It be more fearful of how it will impact the lives of their loved one if you don't take action what will it cost you. What about a few duping what about a few to conquer key, how will it improve their life who else will benefit here will not stop me if my desire to win is strong enough fear will not stop me now I am a George I live without fear. I fear nothing but a mini ogre life, I fear nothing but an average existed, I'll fear nothing but an unlived life. I choose to live free, now hear me what would you do if you had no fear of failure, why are you waiting? everyone has something they fear doing that, if they did it, if they conquered the fear would have a huge impact on their life maybe it's the fear of failure maybe they fear embarrassment or rejection if it doesn't work out maybe, they fear starting that business or making that call that one thing you know you must do and if you do it will change your life forever.

                        The greatest success in life is waiting for you right after you conquer your greatest fears everything you want in life is on the other side of fear it is impossible to reach our true potential if you don't face your greatest fears that's just common sense the thing that makes you uncomfortable but you know would make you stronger and better. If you did it that's the thing you must face that is the thing you must conquer if you want your freedom fear is a made-up concept. It doesn't exist think about it say you fear failure you are really fearing a possibility of thought in your head about something that may or may not occur in the future it's not real it's your imagination your thoughts do nothing to empower you let go of the fear and focus on what steps you can take to get to the place you want to get to what is the one thing you must do that could change everything in your life.

The Genius

The term "Genius" seems to have been outdated. When we hear the word it is instantly crushed by the idea that they are special and extraordinary. People like Albert Einstein or Mozart are examples of geniuses we know. When we hear about their stories and accomplishments we are perplexed by what they have achieved. It seems magical to us how they have been able to spring up such grand ideas.

But the great 19th century American genius Ralph Waldo Emerson had a quite opposite view of a genius:

In the minds of geniuses, we find-once more-our own neglected thoughts.

This quote tells us that the geniuses do not have certain special or distinguished thoughts from us. The strange thing we have forgotten is that we are all in some way a genius. The genius doesn't do something extraordinary or grand that differentiates them. What differentiates them from ordinary people is that- they have learnt to pay closer and better attention to their own thoughts.

The reason for neglecting the thoughts that passes into our minds is worry. We destroy them for the alarming notion of looking stupid and strange to ourselves and to the world. We fear that the world would not accept this new person. So we try to bury it into our deepest desires. But when we criticize this fear and banish it, the genius within us starts to come to life. We start to pay better scrutiny to ourselves.

We need to stop being tricked by a beguiled portrait of the genius and recognizing that it is some mysterious land over the horizon. It is far more inciting. We can all be geniuses when we will pay closer attention to ourselves and being mindful. We are all adroit and possess similar minds, where the genius stands out is their vigorous tendency to analyse them properly.

Develop A Strong Mind And You Will Live A Strong Life

                  

 (NOTE : Read it as if you are hearing a motivational talk and you will be motivated.)

                   Develop a strong mind you will live a strong life. If you only ever listen to one thing I say listen to this develop a strong mind and you will live a strong life. A strong mind is built from feeding it with positive thoughts and learning new things every day, not every now and then not for a little while every single day a strong mind is built with daily gratitude. When you are grateful for everything you do have, you have no room for negativity, no room for doubt or anxiety. A strong mind is built with goals, goals that give you a reason to get up out of bed and attack the day. A strong mind is built from knowing you are responsible for your life your results your success in your failures, a strong mind is building, learning new things every day on topics that expand your mind and develop skills.

                    Growth is the Keelung if you are growing and challenging yourself every day you'll lead a happy life, if you're not you will something. The mind is like a muscle it gets stronger when you embrace challenges when you push it to its limits when you learn what works and apply that to your life. A strong mind is one that surrounds itself with the right people a strong mind does not let opinions after its course in life, it followed this old path no matter what a scroll mine is one that visualizes success and it's prepared to work to make their kitchen come to life. A sprawl line does not their fear get in the way of success staying strong life. Zig Ziglar once said "if you are not willing to learn no one can help you if you are determined to learn no one can stop you" live your life with that determination to learn every single day and no one will stop you. Every day is a new opportunity to be better to make better choices which will in time make for a better life, every day is a new opportunity to take responsibility for our actions to ask honestly, 'can I do better? ' that argument I had with my friend a partner can I do better. It doesn't matter if they were right or wrong, it doesn't matter if I even like the person or not can I do pattern did the negative energy that I play take me closer to or further away from Who I want to be, how have I been feeding my body can I do better regardless of how hard it is, regardless of my lack of what can I do better, what can I do better to insure I am functioning at my highest level every day.

                     What about my financial results can I do better no more excuses it's not my father's father I'm not rich I am where I am because of my decisions can I do that, I can. Will I find out how I can do I will starting win starting right now what about my happiness can I do better, yes. Because it doesn't matter what happens around me there is only one person that decides what happens within me and that is me. I decide I'll react to every circumstance I decide how I react to other people therefore I am always in control of my feelings, my emotions, my life. Can I'll do better? yes, will I do better? yes, am i committed? yes. The truth is most of us can do. 

                     We can do better today and then tomorrow we can do better again. We were born to grow and to be truly fulfilled we must be growing in all areas of make a commit to yourself every area of your life, your happiness, your relationships, your health and fitness, your finances everything. They caught moment upon credible your life to be in white three years five years maybe you want to be a millionaire and you do it yes you can find references make a plan and work towards it. You want the four seek and held up a fitness model can you achieve it yes you can find references learn how make a plan set your deadlines and work or can I do better yes will I do better yes. 

The Art Of Overcoming Shyness

Shyness is the feeling which you have experienced in some way or another in your life. You may know that when you were shy you lost all your reasoning ability and couldn't think what to say or do. It is possible you might think that it's inherited or biological, that you possessed it from your father and from your forefathers. But this is actually a false notion which people have in their minds when they think of shyness. The truth is very different from what people admit it is.

The Origins Of Shyness

Shyness is experienced from the lack of compatibility of the inner selves. It is the feeling that you are not good enough for others. That you might spoil the whole conversation by uttering something absurd or considering yourself as just an unnecessary piece of the pie. Shy people are not clumsy around everyone, but they only act such around those who seem to have the most contrary features or qualities from them ranging from race, religion, beliefs or habits.
The reason behind this thinking is that you never quite actually see the true nature of the people you are in contact in the beginning. You only see what they want you to see and judge them by that abridged knowledge. You are under the misguided impression that the girl from your class might not like you because you are ugly or insecure while she is the most beautiful person on the planet. This justification can separate you farther from them rather than bringing you closer. It can alienate two people as if they are from two different worlds. It can be acknowledged as the "Parochial World" of the shy person.

The Parochial World

This concept of reasoning can eliminate the similar interests which you both share together but which you don't know yet. Both of you may share similar interests in sports and a common appetite of conversing about romance movies. When in contact with the person from the Parochial World, the shy person allows their minds to be governed by their differences and dissimilarities.

Ways to overcome shyness

1. Accept that you are shy and that it is a good thing

The first step to overcoming your shyness around people is to accept and admit that you are shy. Believe that it is not a bad thing, that by being shy you are not hurting the other person or making him/her uncomfortable. Most people are shy and self-conscious about themselves and it is absolutely fine.

2. Think positive thoughts.

When you feel that you are being dominated by shyness, think positively and speak to yourself by giving pep-talks such as "I'm a great person, I know that everybody are happy to see me."

3. Avoid bullies and friends who don't respect you.

Keeping yourself in the company of negative and disrespectful friends would only increase your demureness. Try to avoid them as much as possible.

4. Know your weaknesses and insecurities.

Being aware of your weaknesses and insecurities would enable you to keep your cool when shyness kicks in. Your weaknesses or insecurities may include money, lack of confidence or skin problems. Do whatever you can to improve your weaknesses and if you can't embrace them.

5. Get out of your comfort zone

In order to overcome your shyness, you have to push yourself out of your comfort zone daily. Do things that you normally wouldn't do and which  makes you scared.

Surround yourself with DREAMERS

                         

 (NOTE : Read it as if you are hearing a motivational talk and you will be motivated.)

           

                Edmund Lee said "you must surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers the believers and the thinkers but most of all surround yourself with those who see the greatness within you even when you don't see it in yourself ". If you want to be successful in your life you must surround yourself with winners. Beaupre Winfrey said " surround yourself with people who are only going to lift you higher". We only get one life one chance to make a difference to make an impact to do something great in order to take on the adversities the challenges all the obstacles that are coming your way you can only overcome those obstacles with a winning mindset and when you surround yourself with average minded friends that will hold you back and keep you from your dreams.

                 You must eliminate all negativity in your life, you must eliminate anyone who says you can't do something that you aren't good enough that you're not worthy of success. Start surrounding yourself with positive people that live you higher you can, start doing the work every single day ,waking up early grinding it out doing the reps every single day 'day and

day-out' developing your craft mastering your skills becoming someone you've never become by doing things you've never done that's what it's going to take to have a winning mindset. Repeating patterns over and over and over again and developing yourself into such a powerful belief that anything is possible. You must eliminate anyone with an average mindset and start seeking out those positive inspiring friends start seeking out those individuals who have a mindset that is just a little bit off, just a little bit crazy that thinks anything could be possible those are the difference makers, those are the change makers, the ones that step beyond the

crowd, the ones that stand out and speak up and use their voice.

                 They do the unpopular, you need to surround yourself with those type of people eliminate all individuals in your life that said you can't do something that you aren't good enough they aren't good enough and they're projecting, they're limiting beliefs on you those with a winning mindset. Don't discount their beliefs, they don't discount their gifts, they don't discount their uniqueness in the world they upgrade their beliefs, they upgrade their mindset, they upgrade their talents by constantly working and grinding and surrounding themselves with positivity. Use every single day to create more belief within yourself you must surround yourself with winners if you want to achieve in credibly powerful life. If you want to achieve great things in your life you must have a mindset that is so strong so powerful so positive that you believe anything is possible in order to do that. You must surround yourself with others who think as crazy as you do that anything is possible. Because my friend you know that all things are possible, focus on finally those individuals who can lift you higher and eliminate all individuals who try to hold you back.

                  I grew up with a negative mindset thinking that I wasn't good enough that I was incapable of achieving great things in athletics, in business, in life. I thought I'd always live poor I didn't think I would be a professional athlete and it wasn't until I started finding positive coaches who instilled this mindset of belief this winner's mentality to show me what was possible in my life. That I started to believe that all things were possible I almost formed out of English high school and yet I wrote a New York Times best-selling book. I never imagined in my life that I would speak in front of tens of thousands of people when I stuttered in front of five and yet I developed myself to believe that I could speak in front of anyone and deliver a message that would inspire and move the world. I never knew how to interview other people and then I went on to launch one of the top 100 podcasts in the world without having any experience but I started to believe that anything was possible and I put in the reps and I put in the time and I put in the work and I seeked out the most powerful minded people in the world to give me the information I needed to generate the results in my life.

My experiences with BOARD EXAMINATIONS!!

The word “Examination” is the most breath-taking term in the life of a student. A student can tolerate anything in life but exams are one of the worst nightmares that nobody wants to face in real life. It is the most challenging phase one has to go through in life; and that is why most people hate it. Many suffer from “exam phobia” that is the fear of exams during this period; and that too if one has to face the majestic “BOARD EXAMINATIONS” and that too for the first time out of your cocoon! I mean school! It is as a 440-volt thunder struck on you.

First Thunderclap:  It was a mid December when the CBSE Board declared its date sheet for class 12 Senior Secondary School Board Examinations. I got back home at around 7:30 after attending my coaching and just got the news!!So, immediately I checked it and found first exam on 9-March- a sigh of relief cause we thought it would be starting from 1^st. Then on going through it what the hell!!! Physics exam on 15^th a day after HOLI. No!!!!! I have not studied anything. I hate Physics and it is ruining my festival too. OOOh no!!!. Then with a heavy heart I began, my preparations all was going well but had no time to study Physics, as I do not like the subject at all.

A trailer of Doomsday-“The Practical”: In mid January, we had our practical exams. It was 24-Jan-2017 when my Physics practical was scheduled; and guess what on the same day my cousin’s marriage was. This was the worst thing one could face. My whole family went outstation except for my mother and me. My hatred for Physics increased and due to a lot of hustle and bustle in the house, I was not able to study properly.

 Finally, I was called for viva. The examiner was sitting I had only studied two chapters and guess what-Luck was on my side all the questions were asked from those chapters only. Phew!! A sigh of relief!! Viva did go well for Physics. Practical of chemistry also went well. However, Computer Science killed me. I had prepared all the possible programs except one and that was in front of me. Now what! I will lose 15 marks. Nooo!!! I did not want this but luckily, I was able to code it correctly. Viva also went good and I was hoping good marks.

The Majestic ‘BOARDS’: Now the challenge was waiting for us “The CBSE Board Examinations”. First examination went well. However, on 15-March-2017-second board examination (Physics)-I am ready we were about to leave but then-Awwwakkkkk!!! OOuuuuk!!! I vomited!!! One, two, three in a row. Wow!! Hat trick completed!!! Bingo!! However, wait I cannot walk even few steps I am feeling dizzy. NO!! Not again, Physics fear returns. Then I reached the examination hall 2 friends carried me upstairs I kept drinking Glucose before going to the hall and thankfully got some strength to fight with my strongest enemy-“Physics”. Although question paper was, a bit easy and I knew almost 80% of it (A big deal for me). Therefore, everything went well and finally my Physics exam was over. Next was Maths it went well, Chemistry-well I need not worry for that, as it is my strongest subject.

    Now, Computer Science examination had no time to prepare had one day in between and that too Sunday!!! However, I thought I had prepared well and reached the examination hall. I began searching for my roll number what!!! All of my classmates in one room and me being the last roll number had been allotted a separate room. Noooo!!! I cannot tolerate this. I reached the room it was full of boys. I had studied in Girls’ school so I was a bit nervous then question paper came into my hand and-It was my worst nightmare I had no clue about a 10 marks question. Now, I am going to get marks out of 60- this was certainly not anyone would have wanted; but nothing can be done. Therefore, I completed my exam and came out of the hall. A sigh of relief!! Finally, the exams have finished.YoooHoooo!! Yipppeeee!!!!.

The final call –“Results”: On 28-May-2017 was the result day. I woke up at 8:00 am got ready by 9:30 and kept on waiting for the results. Kept on refreshing the page until at about 12:00 finally have to see the result- fingers crossed; the site is working slowly, the page is loading… At 12:15 the results are here Wow!!! I secured 89.6% this could not get better. Therefore, finally the boards result is out and I am satisfied with my performance.

     So, that was my experience with Board examinations- truly a thrilling one.

Importance Of Meditation

             Importance Of Meditation

According to some statistics, the number of people that is meditating every day is increasing all the time and I hope that this number will increase more and more.

But there are still a lot of people that are not practicing meditation and that’s why I decided to write this post, to encourage more people to meditate.

Meditationis free,its powerful,can be practised by anyone,anywhere is extremely beneficial and can help us to feel happier.

Now, what is Meditation?

Meditation is an ancient practice that helps to control our own mind and consequently our own life and discover ourselves.

Personally, it is a way to recharge my batteries and to calm my mind down.

Has it ever happened to you? Where your mind has taken over and, therefore, you are not able to take some thoughts out of your head and you feel without energy and even too tired to sleep?

Meditating helps us to control our mind and thoughts and turn off our mind when we do not need it anymore.

Meditation is essential to feel well and live a happy lifel

But why?

Meditation can help to eliminate the negative thoughts,worries,anxieties and all the factors that prevents us feeling happy.

If we make a habit of meditating, we feel mentally fresh and we are able to deal with difficult situations more easily.

To meditate it’s not necessary to be a Buddhist, Hindu or practice any religion, in fact, meditation has nothing to do with religion.

We do not even need to spend hours and hours sitting in the lotus position.

Most of the time we need a reason to start doing something. For instance, when we don’t feel well, we become more open to try everything possible that can help us to feel better and that could be included even meditation.

Personally, I think we don’t need any particular reason to start meditating. Even if we are happy with our life, meditation could be very beneficial, it can help with the quality of our life and also I can see it as a prevention to a series of health issues.

We are used to a quick fix, everywhere advertisements offer us the choice of hundreds of different pills, tablets, gels for a lot of things with the promise that in a short time we will be ok, without having to do anything.

I am refering to a headache, sleeping disorders, anxiety and a lot of other health issues. Don’t get me wrong, we need medicine but a lot of these issues can be sorted out with meditation.