Be your own master

Before embarking upon this , you shall first appreciate the fact greatly in your mind that happiness and unhappiness are basically states of mind and are not necessarily dependent on outer circumstances and conditions , that is , they come from inside and not from outside.

The first step to be who your own master is to remain happy ever.

Stress , anxiety and tension are basically the pillars that lead you towards unhappiness and often ends up in you destroying things and thereby a part of yourself too .

The first step you need to take forward to be our own master is to believe in  yourself. If you believe in yourself there is no other person who can stop you from being who you are and doing what you like.

Being attached emotionally and mentally is the other pillar that might lead you to the dark for noone can make you happy , except you yourself and that is only possible when you donot let others rule over you. Letting go of people and things  is wise at times. Letting someone rule over you is not what you are here for .

A positive mindset , the power to face challenges and overcome fears is one another great thing. No one can put you down , if you , yourself , are standing to face each and every problem without fear. The moment you give up , it gives others the liberty to use you as and how they want for you are considered to be a weak soul then. Welcome the difficulties for everything has a reason. Nothing happens just by chance or accident. Accept your weaknesses , they will help you grow.

Anger is a weapon that will kill your happiness but smile is a weapon that will kill others. For , a person is always interested to know the reason why the other is always happy. Never let the smile go off your face . Everyone has difficulties , donot showcase them to others. They might take undue advantage of it .

Not all people are same and not everyone will put you down. But you need to keep in mind that you need to rise higher and higher and shine bright. Take a initiative. Set things right. Help others. Donot think you are the only one in this world. Develop tolerance. Don't get carried away by others influence . Don't try to change others. Change yourself for the best and let the power come to you on its own.

Always remain optimistic and give no space to ego and greediness. Remain silent. Stay patient. Respect others. Be humble. Enjoy what you do. Love what you have.  Let go of the past , stop worrying about the future , live in the present and whatever you do , make sure it satisfies you before any other person. Forget and forgive. Enjoy each moment of your life as per your wish and not how others want you to do. 

And lastly learn to say "NO". Be confident ,  straightforward and courageous and never hesitate to say a no. Be polite and respectful and explain the reason for why ain't you ready to fulfil the duty as demanded by the situation so that you don't seem to be arrogant or rude. Raise your voice against any injustice or wrong being done. If the other person is annoyed if you disagree as per their wants, just remember you are not here to please others . Concentrate on yourself at that time instead of concentrating on others.

Surround yourself by people who you can be mad with . Stay with the people around whom you don't need to pretend to be someone you are not . They are those people who want you to be you and not what anybody else wants you to be .

Be your own master . Donot accept anything which is less than the best.  You will live the happiness you would have missed , ignoring yourself while satisfying others.

If you wait for it ,

You will wait forever.

If you do it now ,

You will be happy forever.!