The Power of Positive Thinking.
Positive Thinking is a mental and emotional attitude that focuses on all the bright and positive side of life. To be optimistic and always hoping to get a positive result from all your endeavors no matter what the outcome may be.
A positive person anticipates happiness , health and success and believes vehemently that he or she can overcome any obstacle and difficulty that comes their way. Positive thinking is not a scientific concept that everyone believes and follows. Some people think of it as obtuse and nonsensical and ridicule people who follow it. However, many people accept it as a fact and have faith in its power and effectiveness.
Positive thinking nowadays seems peculiar and doltish. Today's life is so full of uncertainty that positive thinking seems a waste. People want to be happy but they don't know how to with so many struggles and problems already in their life. For a school student to get a get a good college, for a college student to get a better placement, for a employee to get a MBA for a better salary and the list never ends. People are so preoccupied with their future that they forget to cherish and actually live their life. Everyone on earth has problems and everyone has to face them , but we should face the problems with a smile on our face and hope to achieve what we are after. The answer to live a happy and contended life is Positive Thinking. To use it in your life, you need more than just its awareness. You need to adapt the attitude of positivity in everything you do.
“Stand up to an obstacle. Just stand up to it, that's all, and don't give way under it, and it will finally break. You will break it. Something has to break, and it won't be you, it will be the obstacle.”― Norman Vincent Peale
How Positive Thinking Works
The following story illustrates how this power works:
Rajesh applied for a new job, but he didn’t believe he will get it, since his self-esteem was low, and he considered himself as a failure and unworthy of success.He had a negative attitude toward himself, and therefore, believed that the other applicants were better and more qualified than him. Rajesh’s mind was occupied with negative thoughts and fears concerning the job, for the whole week preceding the job interview. He actually, anticipated failure.On the day of the interview, he got up late, and to his horror he discovered that the shirt he planned to wear was dirty, and the other one needed ironing. As it was already too late, he went out wearing a wrinkled shirt and without eating breakfast.During the interview, he was tense, negative, hungry and worried about his shirt. All this, distracted his mind and made it difficult for him to focus on the interview. His overall behavior made a bad impression, and consequently, he materialized his fear and did not get the job.
Siddhant applied for the same job too, but approached the matter in a different way. He was sure that he was going to get the job. During the week preceding the interview, he often visualized himself making a good impression and getting the job.In the evening before the interview, he prepared the clothes he was going to wear, and went to sleep a little earlier. On day of the interview, he woke up earlier than usual, and had ample time to eat breakfast, and then to arrive to the interview before the scheduled time. Siddhant made a good impression and got the job.
What do we learn from these two stories? Was there any magic used? No, everything happened in a natural way.
Positive Thinking Is a Way of Life
With a positive attitude we experience pleasant and happy feelings. This brings brightness to the eyes, more energy, and happiness. Our whole being broadcasts good will, happiness and success. Even our health is affected in a beneficial way. We walk tall, our voice is more powerful, and our body language shows the way we feel.
We affect, and are affected by the people we meet, in one way or another. This happens instinctively and on a subconscious level, through words, thoughts and feelings, and through body language.Is it any wonder that we want to be around positive people, and prefer to avoid negative ones?
People are more disposed to help us, if we are positive, and they dislike and avoid anyone broadcasting negativity.Negative thoughts, words and attitude, create negative and unhappy feelings, moods and behavior. When the mind is negative, poisons are released into the blood, which cause more unhappiness and negativity. This is the way to failure, frustration and disappointment.
Positive Thinking Instructions and Advice
In order to turn the mind toward the positive, some inner work is required, since attitude and thoughts do not change overnight.
- Read about this subject, think about its benefits, and persuade yourself to try it. The power of your thoughts is a mighty power that is always shaping your life. This shaping is usually done subconsciously, but it is possible to make the process a conscious one. Even if the idea seems strange, give it a try. You have nothing to lose, but only to gain.
- Ignore what other people say or think about you, if they discover that you are changing the way you think.
- Use your imagination to visualize only favorable and beneficial situations.
- Use positive words in your inner dialogues, or when talking with others.
- Smile a little more, as this helps to think positively.
- Once a negative thought enters your mind, you have to be aware of it, and endeavor to replace it with a constructive one. If the negative thought returns, replace it again with a positive one. It is as if there are two pictures in front of you, and you have to choose to look at one of them, and disregard the other. Persistence will eventually teach your mind to think positively, and to ignore negative thoughts.
- In case you experience inner resistance and difficulties when replacing negative thoughts with positive ones, do not give up, but keep looking only at the beneficial, good and happy thoughts in your mind.
- It doesn’t matter what your circumstances are at the present moment. Think positively, expect only favorable results and situations, and circumstances will change accordingly. If you persevere, you will transform the way your mind thinks. It might take some time for the changes to take place, but eventually they will.
Always be happy and contended with whatever you have. Never think low of yourself or worry to much about the future. Give your best in the present and leave your problems to God. Live life as a gift because in the end everything that ever happened , good or bad, it will make perfect sense.
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