Firstly we’ll try to understand or to agree on a simple common subject “WHAT IS LOVE”. Do you know what love means, but what if I don’t agree to your definition of love, this is what makes one sided love more difficult or in some ways a little bit easy . Everyone has a perspective or their own definition to define love or to see what love is. The most common definition of love is “to like someone the way they are , the way they think or their way to do things”.
So now we are going to talk about our topic which is one sided love , but when we talk about love instantly in our head we think about two people who are in love with each other and that’s it nobody or some people don’t believe that one sided love also exist. The next question in your mind is what actually is one sided love, to know totally about that you have to read the full article, but for starter one sided love is “one person loving another person without the another person’s consent or you can say that the other person don’t know that the person is in love with her/him in more simpler words it’s a crush”.
As you know everything that exists in this world has two sides to it, one sided love is no different.
So we are firstly going to talk about the happier side of one sided love .In this we are going to see that how you can be a better person with a little help of the feelings you get when you are in a one sided love. In one sided the person is unaware of thing that you are in love with them. So that thing can work in favor of you, as you also know that the love you are giving to another person is not going to comeback from them, this can teach how a person can love another person unconditionally, without thinking what comes in return of our care and love we do things for that person. But after some time the expectation grows that we also deserve something in return for all of the unconditional love, but if at that time you achieve to convince yourself that it is impossible to get if the person is not even aware that you love them then how can you expect love in return of love. At that time you learn how to have a patient mind and how to control yourself in difficult situation.
One sided love also teaches you some hard lessons also which in-fact is good for you at the end. If you try to tell the person that you love them and they refuses to love you back at that time if you are able to control your emotions you actually can learn how to love yourself above everyone and also that education and career is more important than all these things.
Now the reality check comes in, now we are going to talk about the evil face of one sided love or how it can get clumsy when everything doesn’t go so well. A person who loves someone without their awareness can come into a lot of trouble if they try to do something of extreme level. I may tell you one sided love and stalking someone is poles apart, this is where some people make a mistake and they mix two of them together which can cause a lot of trouble. When you mix them together you are not in control of your feelings and you try to do some silly things that can annoy your crush, I am not very sure if you can call them your crush at this very moment. Someone can bear with cyber stalking because you are just watching what are they up-to in their lives but when you talk about following someone day in and day out is not very appreciable, this can have very severe consequences for both the persons involved.
And when you try to tell the person you love, if they accept your proposal then everything is well and good but what if they refuse it as we talked above it can teach you patience and self-control but if it goes wrong it can get you in real trauma of rejection, which is not good for anyone. You can go in depression and can cause harm to anyone even to the person whom you love.
So to sum up the article I can only say that always try to pick out the positive out of every situation you get into and that is how to love someone unconditionally. A lot of memes say one sided love is great just smile seeing your crush and stay happy.
A great man once said”the power of one sided love is different I even don’t need the person whom I love to love them”.
So now we are going to talk about our topic which is one sided love , but when we talk about love instantly in our head we think about two people who are in love with each other and that’s it nobody or some people don’t believe that one sided love also exist. The next question in your mind is what actually is one sided love, to know totally about that you have to read the full article, but for starter one sided love is “one person loving another person without the another person’s consent or you can say that the other person don’t know that the person is in love with her/him in more simpler words it’s a crush”.
As you know everything that exists in this world has two sides to it, one sided love is no different.
So we are firstly going to talk about the happier side of one sided love .In this we are going to see that how you can be a better person with a little help of the feelings you get when you are in a one sided love. In one sided the person is unaware of thing that you are in love with them. So that thing can work in favor of you, as you also know that the love you are giving to another person is not going to comeback from them, this can teach how a person can love another person unconditionally, without thinking what comes in return of our care and love we do things for that person. But after some time the expectation grows that we also deserve something in return for all of the unconditional love, but if at that time you achieve to convince yourself that it is impossible to get if the person is not even aware that you love them then how can you expect love in return of love. At that time you learn how to have a patient mind and how to control yourself in difficult situation.
One sided love also teaches you some hard lessons also which in-fact is good for you at the end. If you try to tell the person that you love them and they refuses to love you back at that time if you are able to control your emotions you actually can learn how to love yourself above everyone and also that education and career is more important than all these things.
Now the reality check comes in, now we are going to talk about the evil face of one sided love or how it can get clumsy when everything doesn’t go so well. A person who loves someone without their awareness can come into a lot of trouble if they try to do something of extreme level. I may tell you one sided love and stalking someone is poles apart, this is where some people make a mistake and they mix two of them together which can cause a lot of trouble. When you mix them together you are not in control of your feelings and you try to do some silly things that can annoy your crush, I am not very sure if you can call them your crush at this very moment. Someone can bear with cyber stalking because you are just watching what are they up-to in their lives but when you talk about following someone day in and day out is not very appreciable, this can have very severe consequences for both the persons involved.
And when you try to tell the person you love, if they accept your proposal then everything is well and good but what if they refuse it as we talked above it can teach you patience and self-control but if it goes wrong it can get you in real trauma of rejection, which is not good for anyone. You can go in depression and can cause harm to anyone even to the person whom you love.
So to sum up the article I can only say that always try to pick out the positive out of every situation you get into and that is how to love someone unconditionally. A lot of memes say one sided love is great just smile seeing your crush and stay happy.
A great man once said”the power of one sided love is different I even don’t need the person whom I love to love them”.
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