How to become a more CONFIDENT person !

Turning your thoughts into action.

I am a 21-year old girl who unfortunately wasn’t born with the confidence that so many people naturally possess these days . I get flustered easily , lose track of what I had to say and struggle with being content with myself in general . A lot of factors in life can make us lose our self-esteem , I for once have suffered from chronic acne and this was a major issue which affected my confidence terribly . Nevertheless you are lucky my friend, because these are some tips and tricks that I practice from time to time and would love to share with you !

1. Fake it till you make it                                                                                                                                       No matter how pretty or confident a person is , he/she will definitely have a bunch of insecurities and issues because let’s face it, nobody is perfect!. We are all in the same boat trying to figure out how to go about our lives, pretending that we have got it all together .You just have to fake it for a while , get acquainted with the ‘law of attraction’ and believe in yourself . According to the ‘law of attraction’ , when you believe and manifest good thoughts , these thoughts turns into actions overtime. When you give out good vibes and have a positive outlook towards life you will eventually become a really confident person .

2. Go easy on yourself

          Take a day off , go to the spa , have a cup of hot chocolate or go watch your favorite movie . Don’t stress yourself , it’s okay if you aren’t quite there . It’s not the END OF THE WORLD . Find time for yourself and the things that bring you joy . When you are happy doing the things you love , nothing else quite matters . Recharge and boost yourself to become a more confident person.

3.Wear a killer outfit

           If you have an important event coming up and you want to feel confident striding across a room of people , wear your favorite outfit . Just go for it!. Go all out on the accessories and makeup cause it’s now or never. Forget about what other people might say, think and their judgment and for once just focus on yourself. Your happiness is what matters ! and if you are comfortable in what you wear , you are definitely going to nail it and nobody can stop you.When you know that you look good you instantly start feeling good about yourself, and that is what really matters, isnt it ?

4.Nobody really cares                                                             
  If you don’t interact with people out of fear of being judged ,if you fail to express yourself due to this reason ; always remember , nobody really cares ! . Everybody in this date is busy minding their own business and struggling with their own problems. If you are right in what you have to say , don’t stop yourself from saying what you want and doing the things that make you feel alive (even if you suck at them ). Remember to keep your head high and chin up and just go with the flow !

5. Love the skin you are in                                                                              

             Stop comparing yourself to people you find on social media no matter how picture perfect their lives look , you never really know what goes on behind the scenes . Be grateful and content with the body and mind you are blessed with .Your body is your home and you can’t escape this truth . Nurture it and give it the love it deserves and it will thank you back for it is your home for this life.