Being Fearless!!

Fear

Do you really think fear exist?? If yes, then you are living it.

Whenever we try to do or think of doing any work like applying for a job, marriage proposal or making any decision of any type we definitely feel afraid at some point. But do you remember when we were a kid we never thought before doing anything infact we just did it without even giving a second thought to it. Because children are not aware of what fear means they don’t have fear of losing someone fear of failure fear of rejection or any kind of hesitation and most importantly kids don’t think of “LOG KYA KAHENGE??”

It’s not our fault it’s just that we are grown up like this only our parents our society is responsible for making us fearful. As we grow up we are taught like this ‘you can’t do this, girls can’t do that, boys can’t cry’ girls are not supposed to go out late night, girls have to follow this that and many more. It's now,when we want to be independent , we can’t because all these fears already stuck in our mind and we are trying to get rid of all fears. And to be that we have to go against our society our parents or our elders.

Do you ever think of ‘what is Fear??’

Fear always paralyses your mind unnecessarily and restricts you or stop you to do anything you want to do or you want to be.

For overcoming fear we don’t need to jump on How to overcome fear?? Or how to solve this how to solve that. At first we need to know and understand what the situation is and act accordingly. Ask yourself and think what is the reason behind it ? You are accepting fears and fears stop you from getting your goals restricts you to do things you want to achieve in life. You have the capability to do everything but its your fear which is making you helpless and you are doing so many things forcefully only because of fears for eg. Suppose you are doing a job which you don’t like and you are not interested in knowing that you hate your job you are doing it because of fear of losing what you are getting from your job i.e Money because you are afraid if you don’t get money you can’t able to stand and fulfill your responsibilities. And there can be many more examples of these kinds of fear.

Desire is the root of fear, more we desire more fears we will get. But we can’t stop our desires because desire is the only thing we are living for and we are doing everything in life because of desires if we don’t have any desire we will not do anything for ourselves. Desires are the triggers because of which we get to achieve what we want.

So now you must be thinking of what will be the solution of being fearless??

Love, yes you read it right!!

Love is the only solution we have to get rid of fear if you want to be fearless you need to love everything. Here meaning of love is not attachments or emotional connections. It means you are free to do what you want, it means your freedom it means you love yourself you love the way you are, love for your work, love is what you owes, love is you can decide what is good for others not according to you but for themselves.