Questions are important too!

Questions are Important too:

We ask too much. Every where we go. Even when grounded in our couches. Maybe to others. Often to ourselves. Ponder. Think. Act. Decide. These are some of the daily programming sort of languages encoded in every species present on this earth. And the language being more complex when we talk about Sapiens. That is Us. The Wise one as it translates. 

We have broken the records in asking . But is that leading to something ,the universe created you for? It may sound big . But you were never born to be unheard.

So making a road map of questions. And the filling stations indeed. Perhaps this is no life hack. Just a simple what , when, why, and how QUESTIONS can make us what we are or want to be. I will stress on the latter more.

Demand or struggle?

You intend to ask for a good job, a happening relationship, lots of money in bank, a fame monster and a nice beast out for sex. No need to refrain. Its so accepted. But one question that may shift perspectives. What you want to take pain for? Nobody wants to lift weights without rewards, drag in sun without money or make healthy connections without mutual benefits.

But when you ask yourself what you want to bear this struggle for, you really clear the first road of your life. That is your goal till end.

Mays and Shoulds.

These two words above represent your position. You need to find the designation of yours, in every condition. We can be the marginalised at one point,  the nobles at others. Stances shift. So should your standing for them. 

The filling station-Ifs

Presumptions and the anxiety. Yeah its our neurons playing with us. Feeling are signals . Not facts. We are scared to take a step ahead and ask. Its a very humanly defensive mechanism to avoid catastrophes in our lives. Totally justified. But the ifs should only work when you really need a cover. However if you have to make your point, go ahead. Destiny may play good or bad . You are helpless in that way. However you cant shut yourself for the same.

Whys

You are always told to accept reality. It sounds so disgusting . Every folk knows that. Every priest preaches it. So why should you accept. Not accepting eventually gives some peace in disguise. What’s bad in it?

However if we come to a scientific part of it , acceptance can do a great deal.

You must know that every tip to toe of your soul is the brain. Actually you are your brain just sitting in a truck like body of yours. . It is said, that neurons never divide or proliferate again . However they do rewire. That is you can change your circuits inside. Make it more unique. A phenomenon called neuroplasticity. And what causes that?

The external stimuli and effects. And acceptance of truth can help your brain to develop capacity to bear the trauma, hurdles in life ahead.

So to dig in deep, we are stable societies just because of gossips. Anthropology says that . I am just stating it. And what created these gossips?

The questions.

So questions were never bad. But the way you interpret them can be.

Stay cautious , stay aware, stay alive!