Trust is everything

Trust is such a small word but has so much importance in all of us life. Trust is that factor that can join you and also break you apart. Trust not only means honesty or loyalty it also means freedom and respect. When you trust someone you let them free. If they don't trust you they try to cage you.
   When you share a relation with someone let that be of a friend, brother or any such relation you share your thoughts, your life & your experiences.
     The kind of friendliness that we have around us now, with that in no time a stranger becomes a friend. If you are getting along well soon you are sharing your life, your happiness, sorrows, pains, celebrations and problems. But with increasing friendliness the value for relations has decreased to such an extend that today you are friends but you never know what is going to happen tomorrow. Betrayal has become so common, every second person has experienced it. Trusting has become difficult and so having real relations has become more tough. It seems like everybody....every single person is fake, is a cheater. Trust issues has become a major issue.
      When you trust someone you believed whatever they say, you fight for them, you give them chances and most importantly you forgive them.
When we are sharing any relation it is very obvious that we have expectations. They say every relation is based on give and take. May be you found someone who doesn't expect anything and doesn't ask for anything and just gives love and care believe me value them because if you don't there  will come a point when that person will be tired of trying, we all are humans and we all need love and attention. You will regret it very badly when that person would leave you. Well the core idea here is that when you trust someone only then you expect from them. So if you are expectant you are not wrong. There is a huge possibility that the person on opposite side is unable to understand your expectations leading to let down but if you truly trust them, love them and want to save your relation either let go of your expectations or talk about it to that person, try to find solution. Talking always helps. Don't be stupid and start doubting or losing trust.
         When trust breaks, it breaks a person from within. So think twice, trice, ten times before you do any such thing that can hurt a person's trust. Think if that happens to you how would you feel ? What would you do ?
       We all need one such person in our life whom we can trust truly, without any fear of being cheated. If you have any such person in your life name him/ her in comment and if you don't then go get him/ her. 

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