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How are you? Hoping that you are fine and doing well. Taking into consideration that you too will ask me the same question. No, I am not fine ( By the time you read the letter I hope my life comes on track...) Ha, so next time if someone ask you," How are you?" Give them a genuine reply, like me unlike your angry girlfriend/wife/mother/..... Any female in your life / area/ workplace.....So many deviations ohhnoo..... Coming back to letter but prior to that I would like to give you a disclaimer.
Disclaimer: The letter will be candid. I will tell you what I feel is right. If you agree with me, then you are in my team or not. Simple... Right?
So pen, paper, you and me let's go.......
1. RESPECT
Respect your Parents, grandparents, teachers, mama, mami, chacha, bua, didis, bhai, siblings/ cousins (Who are just a year/weeks/days/minutes/seconds elder to you. I know it hurts but you have to.) and blah... blah... It is a never ending list! Do you really think I am going to tell you to respect them because I know you respect them. But......
Do you respect yourself? If yes, then standing ovation for you or give yourself a self pat. If no. Then it's. Never too late to start. Right? Start to respect yourself first! From now onwards. Okay? Okay ( PS guess the movie) Respect your skin tone, oily dry, sensitive, with pimples or without, hairy or not, your body type tall, short, fat, muscular, thin and many more things which makes you YOU..Trust me... Half of the battle against body shaming is won the moment you start repesecting yourself. No one will dare to make fun of you. If they do then you know what to do.Ignore or ( I prefer this) Break their pointed finger. ( for reference you may watch golmaal 3 where furious Ajay devgan goes on twisting the thumbs.) Furthermore, respect your choices, stands, values and morals. RESPECT yourself.
After then respect others......
2. SPEAK
Wait! Wait!Wait! We don't need next Arnab so hold on your horses... Prior to that-speak part. Listen, listen carefully, allow others to talk then think, think rationally and then speak. But speak my darling speak! Even if your voice shakes or your unable to form words it's abouslety okay but just don't sit there crying your heart out and burying all the feelings inside. Please don't do that, speak. Speak baby even if elders say," shut up!", "chup baith ", "shanth bass", nako shanth basuss ( don't be quite). Tell them want you want to tell them, why they are wrong, confront them (Elders can be wrong too! Come on at the end we all are humans.) So listen, think and then
SPEAK.........
3. HOBBY
Wow!! You must be having couple of hobbies or one when you were young. Write an essay on hobby. Favorite topic plus full marks. But as we grow this hobby thing goes apart from you. If you are pursuing it now then amazing I assure you that you are one most luckiest peson. And the rest of (Please oh please don't give me that time nahi mila raaha hai walla reason).What happen? Let's figure it out. Because I believe that if you love something you will always find time for it. But first of all do you really like what you term as your hobby? Or just that hobby par essay likhna tha aur essay book may sirf swimming walle hobby par essay tha or sab friends ko dancing pasand hai toh Mujhe bhi ( I don't want to left out dude... Duh?) Right? Or many more such reasons hurdles/ difficulties were you weren't able to do want you want to do or don't know what to do. So here am I to help you out.
P.S. Stay tuned.
Letter 2 coming soon.
P.S.S Don't forget to like, share and comment on my blog.
See you soon take care......
How are you? Hoping that you are fine and doing well. Taking into consideration that you too will ask me the same question. No, I am not fine ( By the time you read the letter I hope my life comes on track...) Ha, so next time if someone ask you," How are you?" Give them a genuine reply, like me unlike your angry girlfriend/wife/mother/..... Any female in your life / area/ workplace.....So many deviations ohhnoo..... Coming back to letter but prior to that I would like to give you a disclaimer.
Disclaimer: The letter will be candid. I will tell you what I feel is right. If you agree with me, then you are in my team or not. Simple... Right?
So pen, paper, you and me let's go.......
1. RESPECT
Respect your Parents, grandparents, teachers, mama, mami, chacha, bua, didis, bhai, siblings/ cousins (Who are just a year/weeks/days/minutes/seconds elder to you. I know it hurts but you have to.) and blah... blah... It is a never ending list! Do you really think I am going to tell you to respect them because I know you respect them. But......
Do you respect yourself? If yes, then standing ovation for you or give yourself a self pat. If no. Then it's. Never too late to start. Right? Start to respect yourself first! From now onwards. Okay? Okay ( PS guess the movie) Respect your skin tone, oily dry, sensitive, with pimples or without, hairy or not, your body type tall, short, fat, muscular, thin and many more things which makes you YOU..Trust me... Half of the battle against body shaming is won the moment you start repesecting yourself. No one will dare to make fun of you. If they do then you know what to do.Ignore or ( I prefer this) Break their pointed finger. ( for reference you may watch golmaal 3 where furious Ajay devgan goes on twisting the thumbs.) Furthermore, respect your choices, stands, values and morals. RESPECT yourself.
After then respect others......
2. SPEAK
Wait! Wait!Wait! We don't need next Arnab so hold on your horses... Prior to that-speak part. Listen, listen carefully, allow others to talk then think, think rationally and then speak. But speak my darling speak! Even if your voice shakes or your unable to form words it's abouslety okay but just don't sit there crying your heart out and burying all the feelings inside. Please don't do that, speak. Speak baby even if elders say," shut up!", "chup baith ", "shanth bass", nako shanth basuss ( don't be quite). Tell them want you want to tell them, why they are wrong, confront them (Elders can be wrong too! Come on at the end we all are humans.) So listen, think and then
SPEAK.........
3. HOBBY
Wow!! You must be having couple of hobbies or one when you were young. Write an essay on hobby. Favorite topic plus full marks. But as we grow this hobby thing goes apart from you. If you are pursuing it now then amazing I assure you that you are one most luckiest peson. And the rest of (Please oh please don't give me that time nahi mila raaha hai walla reason).What happen? Let's figure it out. Because I believe that if you love something you will always find time for it. But first of all do you really like what you term as your hobby? Or just that hobby par essay likhna tha aur essay book may sirf swimming walle hobby par essay tha or sab friends ko dancing pasand hai toh Mujhe bhi ( I don't want to left out dude... Duh?) Right? Or many more such reasons hurdles/ difficulties were you weren't able to do want you want to do or don't know what to do. So here am I to help you out.
P.S. Stay tuned.
Letter 2 coming soon.
P.S.S Don't forget to like, share and comment on my blog.
See you soon take care......
Written very true
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