A letter to you

      Hey dear hoping that you are fit and fine. If you haven't read my first letter please do check it. This one is the continuation of the first one...........      (http://ccaide.blogspot.in/2017/10/letter-to-you-my-dear.html?m=1) .....................

(Done. Let's begin)

(Take a selfie)

Coming back to the hobby part.

One thing which you loved the most. Joh tujhe pasand thi aur jisse tu bahut pasand tha or hai. That thing which always brings a genuine smile on your face (not that smile which you give to your boss). No, the genuine one. No matter what how much ever you are tired the moment you start doing that thing you are lost, you don't have the track of time, neither of the ambiance nothing.  That one thing which you are willing to do till rest of your life, that one thing however, tiresome it may be for others but not you. Doing it rejuvenates you, refreshes you, were your mind and brain work in sync, the thing which you do to unwind yourself. Oh look yourself in mirror again. And now see the smile. I know it will be worth an social media upload. ( Take a selfie again!)

Remember that? That is your hobby! Please don't stop doing it. See just by reminiscing it you are so happy. Then why to leave it my dear. And talking about the most important part time. You have to make time for that dear. And I know you will. Atleast once a week is more than enough if you are really that busy because of assignments/workload/submissions/ vivas/girlfriend......blah blah....

Do it for yourself! Make time for yourself dear.......

4. FORGIVE

"Teacher Riya pushed me" "Why you did that?Say sorry to Viva." " Sorry, Viva. I won't do that again."

What do you think will happen next? Will Viva forgive Riya? She may, but will she forgive herself for trusting Riya? Should she or shouldn't?

Tough one na.. I know. It must have happened to you too. 

You may forgive the person. But, What about you?Can you forgive yourself? For trusting a wrong person, for believing that person more than others and many more things which you and I know. Forgive yourself. I know it's hard to do that. But do it. Please don't keep any grudge or revenge or any other thing to defame him/ her. Because at one point of the time that person meant world to you. So don't do that. Even if they go without a closure forgive them and moreover, yourself.

You may think that was it even worth trusting a wrong person. Yes it was! Because now you know what not to see in others ( power of elimination). 

My dear, there are some people who will find way to your heart,  make some place for themselves, and stay there forever without paying rent... But trust me it's worth it. And now you know who matters. You will  value them now more.  So thank the Almighty for having these people in your life. They will never ever betray you, leave you even if you give them thousand reasons to leave (dare you give them 1000) stick with you in thick and thin times (like Thandi Maggi jab lunchbox ko stick hoti hai jaise....)Just don't let them go. Go catch'em all. Before someone else GO! GO! Fast...........

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Caught! Good!!!

Don't be hard on yourself and these amazing set of your people just because someone left you. It's okay. It was never meant to be forever with that person. And it's totally fine ( P.S. Watch love you zindagi for better understanding the last part the chair one) So forgive them and most importantly yourself. As I said before there are some people who like you a lot  and with them it is meant to be FOREVER......

"Riya, it's okay. I forgive you."

At the end, life is full of surprises. It never comes with a manual ( As if hota toh read karte) Be wild, be you, be young at heart (Don't grow its a trap) and be anything, anything that gives you satisfaction, brings that genuine smile on your face do it! Just do it! Life is hard/ worst/boring/amazing/fantastic........( you will relate to the above phases depending upon your current scenario)

But EK HI BAAR MILTI HAI ( Kyunki life koi Ekta Kapoor ka serial nahi hai jidhar poonar janam ho) Rewind button nahi hai. Do whatever you want to do. So make sure you make best out of it. Because when you look back in time you should not regret.

So my dear have a fantabulos life and make sure it's worth it!!!!

All the best for your future. Live and let live!!!

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See you soon. Take care..