Action, Thought, Feelings, Revenge, Belief, Truth, Lies, etc... There are many different things a child has in his mind. From morning to night, there are so many different thoughts that are made up in minds of children.
There are many challenges, competition, breakups, revenges, grades, lifestyles, etc the child is facing with. Its good to face all the problems alone. But the sad part over here is that the child is feared and feels shy to share their problems.
Why are children so afraid to share their thoughts? The society has made so many so-called norms where parents are to be considered superior and should be always listened. But according to me parents should be friends of their child and maintain a friendly relation. But from generation to generation parents have mostly failed to maintain such relation.
These leads to make a child fear about the after reactions they will have to face when the share their thoughts with their problems. They think that there might be only two options 1) Parents will feel guilty, torn out, and will consider themselves low (these is the saddest part) 2) They will get angry a lot (which would be unable to image). These two situations are so unmanageable and unimaginable that children's now-a-days feel better to avoid and keep the things with them.
But friends, sharing what you feel is actually a better option as sharing will lead you to solve the problems or say will help you to find some solution or an option to the problems. Sharing with parents is the best option because friends always remember 'The most well-wisher of our life is our parents'. They might get angry but still at the end they are always going to stay with us. They always going to stay with us whatever we at - a better or worst position.
Parents always understand us, they always know what is good and bad for us. So always try to share with parents. They might get angry, feel bad but ultimately they will show us the path.
Friends always share the problems as excess thinking of problems might make you feel lonely, depressed and eventually lead to many health problems. Life is complicated, but the complications can also be lived with a smile if we want to stay that way.
Do you agree to share your thoughts with parents? According to me, thats the TRUE BOND, TRUE RELATION that exists, and will remain forever.
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