It's very common in today's teenagers to say I love you since the day they start their relationship. The truth is that it takes years to truly love a person.
When you're attached to a person,
- You hold expectations from them, and if those are not fulfilled your behavior changes.
- A long communication gap will bring rift between you.
- You want them to be successful, but not more than you.
- Their will be strong resistance to sacrifice your happiness for their happiness.
- Ego exists.
When you love a person,
- You might have expectations; but if they aren't fullfiled, it won't make difference to you.
- A communication gap, irrespective of time won't affect your relationship.
- Their success is your success.
- Their happiness is your happiness, so no sacrifices needed.
- Ego doesn't exist.
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