You might well be damn hard working and the possessor of a fine, smart mind. You might be focused sharp on your goal. But it won't be right if you start contemplating the chances of your success with a poor self confidence. This is where many people fail, and this is the perfect place to make your mark-be it your professional life or just a simple family gathering you have to speak in front of.
Self confidence hones your personality. It makes you more attractive and trustworthy. People like to talk to other people who believe in themselves. In the corporate world also, self confidence has an important part to play. And in this blog, I am going to write about ways in which one can gain self confidence.
Before venturing further, I would like to clear that self confidence and arrogance are two entirely different things. When a person is confident, he or she respects the opinion of others because it is known by him or her that doing so would not lower their own worth. On the other hand, an arrogant person would want to always dominate and impose his or her opinion on others.
There is no shortcut to gaining self confidence. It comes with experience-after you try and err several times, and finally succeed. Still, a few ways can prove to be helpful if practiced regularly.
The first and a very effective method (in my opinion) is, you should go and try something out of your comfort zone and do so each day if possible. It causes a great difference. Doing this excercise makes you believe that you can actually do things. Do not care about the results. Just do something new and do it with all your heart and soul. It will bring a wave of happiness and confidence into you.
Be positive. Remember, successful people are not those who get what they want at the time and in the manner they want it. Successful people are those who, however tiring may be the circumstances, keep working towards their goal with all their rigour and efforts. They have faith in them selves. When ever your circumstances torment you, remember you might be one of those "to-be" successful people whom the whole populace will look up to. But remember also to have faith and belief in your self. Nothing works without that.
Be positive. Things may not turn out to be as you want them to be. It is ok. This is life. It is a struggle. Be patient. Times change-what ever they might be good or bad. Keep trying, your goal is not far.
Talk to yourself once a day. Remind your self of your achievements. Remind your self that no one is perfect-that perfection itself can be chaotic. Love that nose you have got, no matter it is too big. And love your wonderful eyes and hands and ears and face and legs. Love your body. Love your everything. You are one of a kind-irreplacable.
These are a few tips to gain self confidence. Just be comfortable with who you are really and lo! You are a confident person!
Self confidence hones your personality. It makes you more attractive and trustworthy. People like to talk to other people who believe in themselves. In the corporate world also, self confidence has an important part to play. And in this blog, I am going to write about ways in which one can gain self confidence.
Before venturing further, I would like to clear that self confidence and arrogance are two entirely different things. When a person is confident, he or she respects the opinion of others because it is known by him or her that doing so would not lower their own worth. On the other hand, an arrogant person would want to always dominate and impose his or her opinion on others.
There is no shortcut to gaining self confidence. It comes with experience-after you try and err several times, and finally succeed. Still, a few ways can prove to be helpful if practiced regularly.
The first and a very effective method (in my opinion) is, you should go and try something out of your comfort zone and do so each day if possible. It causes a great difference. Doing this excercise makes you believe that you can actually do things. Do not care about the results. Just do something new and do it with all your heart and soul. It will bring a wave of happiness and confidence into you.
Be positive. Remember, successful people are not those who get what they want at the time and in the manner they want it. Successful people are those who, however tiring may be the circumstances, keep working towards their goal with all their rigour and efforts. They have faith in them selves. When ever your circumstances torment you, remember you might be one of those "to-be" successful people whom the whole populace will look up to. But remember also to have faith and belief in your self. Nothing works without that.
Be positive. Things may not turn out to be as you want them to be. It is ok. This is life. It is a struggle. Be patient. Times change-what ever they might be good or bad. Keep trying, your goal is not far.
Talk to yourself once a day. Remind your self of your achievements. Remind your self that no one is perfect-that perfection itself can be chaotic. Love that nose you have got, no matter it is too big. And love your wonderful eyes and hands and ears and face and legs. Love your body. Love your everything. You are one of a kind-irreplacable.
These are a few tips to gain self confidence. Just be comfortable with who you are really and lo! You are a confident person!
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